The Fiesty One

The Fiesty One. Fiesty doesn't mean Bitchy though....



You have to exude confidence to demand respect. Thats right. Demand. No one gives you anything till you project the fact that you have a right to it. And thats what this note is all about. Gonna write both gender's takes on it, all the Ladies and Gentlemen tagged in this-shall appreciate !



Right ! Lets start with the Gents ey ;)

Men. Their DNA. Power. Those are 3 words that i have recurringly seen and dealt with in the same sentence. A man who exudes power gets EVERYTHING in this world. THATS RIGHT---EVERYTHING! The wealth, the women, the wine. Everything. Power is an aphrodisiac to women. Every single woman wants a powerful man. Powerful however doesn't mean controlling. I speak for every woman out there when we ALL say we hate controlling men. However a lot of women sadly decide to stay with men who control them. Not because they like it, but because control is a negative side-effect that is linked in with dominating men. Dominant men are a whole different ball game. They are the attractive powerful ones. The worst thing in this world is when a man gives away his power to a woman. All men are born with innate power. The difference is most happily give it away for a slice of a woman's attention and then you come across very rare finds that are kind to a woman but he doesn't let her have HIS power.

Thats the most desirable type of man on the entire planet.



There's a quote i famously use when i meet a guy (who is usually average) who complains about his lack of success with women. "Attractive (because men always aim high!) women see men like cars. Cars are everywhere. But its only once in a while that her head does a double take and flips around and thinks to herself...Hmmm...interesting." Then i question the man in his own terms. Would you look at a Ford Mondeo twice ? He usually (almost always!) says "No". I ask him "Why ?". He replies "Its an average car and every third person drives it out there!". To which i say "Well then, till you transform yourself into a Bugatti or a Maserati, good luck on having any luck with women". Being a Bugatti doesn't mean you have to be wealthy or famous. It just means you are a class apart :)



Now to move onto the Ladies. If a woman ain't fiesty-you're boring. And which man wants a boring woman. Just like at the beginning of the note-Fiesty doesn't mean Bitchy. It means you don't take any sort of shit from him and he knows you as the girl who'd smack him upside the head with a frying pan if you caught him cheating. He isn't scared by that. Rather he knows his limitation and how far he can push you. Always create boundaries. Achieving a man's respect is 100 times harder than his love. Because men are taught to respect things of value not people that feel the need of constant validation. So, being fiesty is an essential asset !



Well it's time for me to stop mieowing. The neighbours might hear me scratch the wallpaper off ;)