The Challenge

Right. Firstly condolences to my original note who passed away during the internet deciding to sell out on me just as i had finished my note and clicked Publish. R.I.P Note :(

This fabulous note is being written by the fabulous little me (modest, much :P !) again. As has been described. All about the Insecure Man's Ego. The Who's, Why's, Where's-Oh hell you get the picture ;)



We ALL have our insecurities. Be it a weakness, a personal internal battle or a thumbscrew-each person has one. None so more than the insecure man who THRIVES on his ego. His ego being his existance and all he knows. Men run on the 3 C's Autopilot. Control,Challenge and Conquer. A man HAS TO BE in control of a challenging situation and conquer it. Now personally, i have never got in the way of a bloke trying to solve a problem. Men are problem solvers by nature. Well how exactly did you think that back in caveman days (not like much has changed except we drive and wear clothes) men brought food home? The empty stomach was the issue and the problem needed to be solved.

Now the Insecure Man is often tested in life. Facades are put up and fortresses of barbed wire run closely around his emotion so much so that often he isn't sure how to compete with others. Problem is, some of us go through life with a yardstick measuring ourselves aganist EVERYTHING we can possibly find. That becomes a major issue in the thing that tests this type of man-the most. A UBER-STUNNING-JAWDROPPINGLY-ATTRACTIVE....WOMAN! This type of man can easily compete with someone who climbs higher, runs faster and drives with more speed. Thats all the things an average man feels he can compete with and make him (and more importantly-his ego) feel inflated.



The deflation (just like our miserable unfortunate economy) comes with the type of woman mentioned. This type of woman is EVERY STRAIGHT MAN'S DREAM! Men LOVE having this type of woman on their arm but 9 times outta 10 have no CLUE what's to be done with her. "Do we make her stand there and we can stare at her?"..."Do we worship her beauty?". Mind you, i don't blame guys. Beauty.Intimidates. And that's because that men deep down secretly beileve that if it aint the most alpha of alpha male rolling out with such a looker on his arm-he doesn't deserve her. I've never seen anyone question Denzel Washington or some 200 pound American Football Linebacker saying "How's a brutha out with such a FINE honey!?" . Because dudes themselves class him as powerful,wealthy and of physical character (tall,strong, handsome etc). The insecurity comes when men find themselves getting edgy because everyones checking out this hottie on his arm. He feels Proud. Vulnerable and Terrified. It isn't easy that it ain't only you whose got your sights set on this FINE woman. Hundreds of other dudes, just like you-have.



The Challenge ain't about being in this type of woman's life. Its about making your mark and staying there.